ANXIETY & SELF-ESTEEM COUNSELING
You deserve to take care of you.
Supporting young adults and millennial women as they navigate the journey towards healing, reclaiming their inner strength, and embracing self-compassion
Shame, anxiety and feelings of unworthiness can create disconnection within ourselves, our relationships and lives.
Shame is often rooted in feelings of inadequacy, therefore, change begins with self-acceptance and self-love. As we begin to tolerate, appreciate, and ultimately, love ourselves, we learn to embrace our imperfections.
Anxiety comes in all shapes and sizes.
My focus includes the following:
Body Image
Social anxiety
Relationship challenges and intimacy issues
Indecisiveness
Burnout prevention and management
Perfectionism
People-pleasing
Panic
Shame
Trauma
Self-esteem
You are self-aware and are noticing that your anxiety is getting in the way of the life you want to live.
Anxiety can be activating or inhibiting, pushing you to go after your goals one moment but pull back and retreat the next. Maybe you find yourself struggling with comparisons, food choices, self-confidence, and the constant pressure to meet expectations. Reassurance might bring a bit of relief, but those anxious thoughts tend to keep coming back. You might seem calm on the outside, but inside, you feel scattered, wondering how to connect with yourself and others in a real, meaningful way.
Unaddressed anxiety can lead to burnout, impacting sleep, motivation, energy, and presence in conversations. It's easy to overlook self-care and balance in a world that praises hustle and achievement.
You might be wondering where to go from here and this is where I come in…
Exploring and understanding yourself can help deepen self-awareness and help you befriend your anxiety. (I know this sounds scary but anxiety has some really cool perks and plus it’s part of you.) Reconnecting with yourself, prioritizing self-care, and managing tasks more smoothly are all achievable with the right support.
I understand that opening up to someone new is both delicate and courageous.
My intention is to create a safe and supportive space for you, where you can feel comfortable challenging yourself and embracing change with guidance.
AREAS I SPECIALIZE IN
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You are worthy
Shame, as Brene Brown says, grows in silence, secrecy and judgment. It can leave you feeling disconnected, unworthy, and anxious. Maybe you’ve found yourself isolating, chasing perfection, or just trying to numb everything. Over time, you might have learned to keep your feelings locked up to avoid getting hurt — it felt like the safer choice.
But sooner or later, letting go of the pain you’ve been carrying alone becomes necessary for healing. This is where vulnerability comes in; it opens the door to what really heals shame: empathy.
In therapy, you’ll have a space where you can share what you’ve been holding onto and feel truly heard and understood. Little by little, as you begin to uncover who you are, you’ll learn how to embrace and love yourself, imperfections and all.
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The events in your life don’t define you
As you navigate life, you gather memories—some joyful, others painful. It’s often those painful moments that stick with you, making you doubt your worth and leading to behaviors you might not even realize are trauma responses, like people-pleasing, over-apologizing, reassurance seeking, staying busy, or trying to control everything to avoid getting hurt.
Trauma isn’t just about what happened; it’s about how deeply it impacts you. Your pain is real and valid, no matter what others might think. Trauma can leave you feeling anxious, always on edge, like you're waiting for the next bad thing to happen.
In therapy, you'll have a safe, supportive space to embrace all parts of yourself, even those you tend to hide. Together, we’ll explore how your anxiety and trauma are connected, gently transforming those protective behaviors into chances for healing. With time, you’ll start to feel more like your true self, and live a more fulfilling life.
My Approaches
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Digging deep into how past experiences and hidden thoughts shape your present. It’s all about uncovering layers to boost self-awareness and understand what drives your emotions today.
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Promote self-kindness and understanding. CFT reduces self-criticism, fostering inner warmth and compassion for yourself and others.
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DBT combines mindfulness techniques with practical skills to help you navigate strong emotions, build healthier relationships, create a life worth living and handle life's challenges with confidence.
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Harness your strengths for growth and resilience. This therapy emphasizes leveraging your positive qualities to fuel growth, resilience, and achieve personal goals.
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Focus on setting achievable goals and making positive changes now and in the future with Solution-Focused Therapy. Utilize your strengths and resources to create a more fulfilling life.
I'm here to equip you with the tools to navigate the ups and downs of managing anxiety and building self-esteem.
Let’s stay focused on the ultimate goal—helping you feel confident, empowered, and at peace within yourself. While addressing anxiety is important, I’m here to support you not only in coping with daily stressors but also in building long lasting self-worth.
Are you ready to embark on a journey toward a healthier, more confident you?
Reach out, and let’s ease the weight of anxiety so you can embrace a life full of self-assurance and fulfillment.
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